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Chinese New Year 2010

It's been a month plus since i last blogged! time flew and u didnt know it until u try to recall what u have done for the past weeks...

Let's see, beginning of February was really exciting! shopped for CNY, prepared myself *heart* for a long holiday! the last week b4 going back KK, never had a good night rest! why? Dear has to meet clients b4 he went back KK for 10days, i had 'sao gung zhao' with colleagues...and etc...<--cant seems to remember much! ( i blamed ageing for it!) This year, i had the most 'lou sang' i could remember! in total SIX times!!! how scary could that be? it was fun to 'lou', why? i dont know....maybe bcoz of the culture, tradition, people i enjoyed with, people i love...everything, plus it's a holiday i've been anticipating!!


Going back KK, this year, i also realize that i didnt went out for diner as much as past yr! mum home cooked is always the best of all!! we feast like a king, everyday! *amen*


Here's my cute niece, Vicky Chok! simply adorable!!


Another picture, at Jacky's new hse! the relatives are gambling!!

Went for Class of 99 Reunion diner at Putera. saw some of seniors, who r still singles, some r married, some with babies....it's already 10yrs since we leave high school! a decade!!! didnt get to meet up other mates, but i always will make sure i have some quality time with cha, sin & yee!

once back in KL, had a steamboat diner on 26th with vc, puah, wei, daniel, stanley, HC, carmen & dear @ vc's new hse, Kota Kemuning-Shah Alam. we even had a small small small bday song singing for my dear as it was his actual bday! i didnt get anything for him, last yr and this yr! saving is important now *winks* and we'll have a bday celebration together next week @ Bukit Tinggi!!!

Work is as usual, no comments here! the month of March is here. it's my bday coming! what do i want as gift? i totally have no idea, usually i am the one asking people. now when it's my turn, completely clueless! haha...alright, i gotta go shopping to find what do i want!

Also, this weekend our room had a minor changes. changed our wooden floor to tiles!! yippie....getting rid of mr Termites! hopefully it doesnt spread to any other places!!

Bangkok Spree 28-30th Jan 2010

My firs trip of the year, was to Bangkok! a city of traffic jam, polluted (more like toxic) air, thousands of ppl, massage heaven (for some ppl, not me...i will get bruises frm it), cheap bargains (everywhereeeee during night time) and yummy food~

1st pic :There are alot of pink colored taxis...cute!
2nd pic: lots of stalls at street were selling fruit juices in bottle! did i tried? nope...didnt dare to!!

first of all, i didnt missed flight (not as if i will!!), it took only less than 2hours to reach Bangkok. the Passport control(a.k.a immigration) area was jam packed (worse than HK immigration), all tourist trying to get into the city of sin(it made me shop like mad for ur info)~~we landed at 1pm (BKK local time) and queued an hour plus for the passport control and spend the next half an hour searching for our LUGGAGE!!! apparently, luggage was transported to another flight due to airasia staff mistake!! we were so worry...(ok, i was thinking to get new clothes once we were at hotel) but thank goodness, luggage was sitting quietly at another end of the baggage claim area~precious time wasted!!

the first thing andy noticed, there isnt any mountain in bkk( in short for bangkok) and i noticed, their air was very hazy! once we reach city area, it started to jam! lots of car, motorcycles, tuk tuk, taxis...our hotel, Grand Watergate, located at nearby, most of the malls ( a lil of walking wont hurt, yea right, i almost lost the feels of my tired foot!!) we started off by walking to Siam Paragon (took us half an hour, under hot sun) and we only took 2hours to walk ard the place. we had McD (samurai pork burger & chicken and ham pie)

the same night, we walked to Central World mall, which is just next to Siam Paragon (still gotta walk 10mins)!! it has 7 floors with really weird floor plan!! we were like walking round and round, and would get lost trying to find the same shop twice!! we had delicious that glass noodle and minced pork soup noodle ( the waiter mentioned it was spicy hot and we were worry as we look on the neighbour with runny nose and red swollen lips), well, the soup noodle was a joke, it was spicy but not something we couldnt handle, it was yummy-li-cious thou~


A pic of me with the messy bed!!

we walked back to hotel, and there is a small stalls just next to the mall, bought some really cheap small purse (RM1!!!!!!!!!!!! only), continued walked and noticed, some food stall on our way back! we vowed to eat that as diner tmr night (wow-ed us with the street food)~ we took an hour Thai massage (200 baht only~~~) i had jelly body and wobbly legs after the massage!! haha..it was PAINFUL!!!!

2nd morning, i woke up early ( ok..i didnt have a good night sleep, why? i dont know...excited? mayb), we went for hotel american bfast with really limited choice of food, but better than none plus, we only paid 1200 baht per night (really reasonable)! PLATINUM mall, here i come!! i shopped non stop for 3 hours at this 6 level mall!! i was there early, so, some of the shops were not opened yet! bought, shopped, bought and continued walking!! set a limit of 3hour, went back hotel to drop off my spree and head to BTS station(lrt), heading to Mo Chit (Chak tuk chak Market). we were disappointed, it wasnt opened as it was published in website!! argh....it was drizzling when we head back to BTS station for Chinatown (stopping at National Stadium station).

A view of platinum mall shoppers with floor sitting shopping!!

yeah, drizzle --> heavy downpour!!! argh...stuck at MBK mall (every tuk tuk asked us, whether we wanna go there o not, but friends asked us NOT to!!) well, we managed to get andy a shirt for 99baht, dirt cheap!!! their men t-shirt are really nice, but, too bad, there isnt any size for my Mr Big!! after a tea time (another round of pork soup noodle <--nice!! and so-so chicken chop rice, with really reasonable price) , we took "tuk tuk" to Chinatown! a lil' disappointed again, it has alot of goldsmith shop and nothing much to see or buy except pork flow, pork roll and other snacks..half an hour plus later, we took "tuk tuk" back to Central World for continue our explore as we didnt manage to complete! we planned to go Suan Lam Night Market, but the locals advised us not to go due to bad bad traffic jam!! the ride back to central world was very long, due to the bad traffic, we experience bad pollution (lots of clogged pore & acne cooking up) we had mango dessert at central world, which was really really good!! we walked a lil more, b4 i decide to call it off, and head for the yummy street food!! the stalls are along a short walk, but it was PACKED with locals & tourist!! we tried their heavy coated salt grilled fish, which is on everyone's order list! it was fresh, no smelly fishy smell and go with chili!! superb..didnt tried any other seafood, as we were quite full! thinking to go Pratunam Mall, but it was closed at 8pm, so we end up walking at the walkaway with lots of small stalls, selling accessories, clothes and food!! by the time we were done shopping, we went for a foot massage, 200 baht an hour!! my legssssssssss...i'm not sure i am actually doing 'them' a favour or torturing! packing and counting the stuff i bought...delightful!! after my last day of bfast, we went to Platinum mall again to kill our last 2hours in bkk!! crazyyyyyyyy....on a sat morning, it was already packed with lots of ppl with trolley to pack their goodsss..it was hectic, heavy jam in a MALL and lots of ladies sitting on the floor sorting their bargained goods!!! ready to leave, it took only half an hour to reach airport frm hotel, but the queue to passport control long (not as bad as the day we reached) but much more organized!! woo hoo.....we had lunch at airport, tom yum goong & fried noodle!! we spend every penny we brought to bkk and went back with 20 baht!!


A picture of the restaurant where we spend our last penny for lunch! the 4 kind of 'add-to-taste' spices, some-oil, chili flakes, chillies in vinegar & sugar !

Drove up to Skudai, Johor after an hour reaching home!! stayed at a really nice boutique hotel, J Hotel!! will be leaving for home tmr, 1st Feb!!! signing off~


A picture of Johor famous braised duck dish, comes with rice or noodle! a cute poodle hiding under the sofa, belongs to Connie, the bride of andy's client frm Johor, named Mao, only understands chinese! haha

Hauls frm Spore!

this is 3 out of 5 piece that i got frm spore, little john departmental store for SGD5!! cool right? thou the cotton seems a lil thin, but the colors are darn attactive! why did i blogged bout it? random..



Jeans we bought frm Levi's Signature, SGD39.90 each if 2piece purchased!! actual is SGD69.90!! hu hu hu...bargain!!

Burst into.....flames!

it's just a week ago, we had silent war..this time, i guess balloon just burst due to unable to release last week's contain!

i gotta admit it, i was suppose to forgive and forget, i manage to forgive, but forget....it takes longer (definitely not a week time to do so)...

it was really tiring and sleepy last night after service. i woke up at 6.20am, prepared myself and went out at 6.50am. by 7.25am, i start help cousin fiancee, Mei yong to make up to be a pretty bride. it is much tougher than i imagine! got it done by 8.10am, went off to hav a short bfast and met up at Thean Hou Temple. everything settled by 10.30am, met Esther and Joshua (both photographers)

we then went to Bandar Puteri Puching for lunch, at a place call Anggerik which serves Indo food. the food was not bad...small portion but we were content after a celebration!!! we decided to get a hair cut at that area, search and found a place, Gc Salon...boy, we were in for a WAIT!!!
i waited for half an hour for my turn, while...poor dear waited bout an hour plus.....frm 1.15pm till 3pm plus...not coming back for the 2nd time!!!!!!!!!!!!!

went to pyramid (travelling back home is a lil far) to kill time b4 heading to church for service..was really sleepy by then!!! after service over, thinking to go home straight for a rest...so didnt want to join CG for diner, but....ac agreed when asked. so i thought, it's ok...but he's not planning to have diner, so i decided not to go..told him during our ride there, suddenly, everything turned ugly.

i forgot who started it, probably me again frm ac's point of view and said i yelled at him (mayb i did)...i kept quiet, angrily said, we can go if he want to have a drink. he sternly said NO. when we were at the roundabout (almost hit a idiot fella driving recklessly), another car coming from right side, signaled to turn left, and this is when ac hit the oil, again, scared the hell out of me!!

ta-da...this is when my balloon burst!! i ...hrm....scolded him....he explained, he didnt did it intentionally and didnt see the car....i think it didnt work by then, bcoz my heart pumping rapidly, mind all blurred and confused....i did the unthinkable to release IT....i screamed on top of my lungs....YEAH!! i did it...not only once, but 3 times!!

after doing so, i feel relief...as if i have unleash the monster inside of me building up! my body weaken, heart beat steadied, and i am....speechless....2 drop of tears...sliding across my cheeks, i closed my eyes, not wanting to see anything till i reach home.

it's my fault...tension been building up, unable to release it...due to really small matter, i exploded! bad timing....been having alot of thoughts lately...what a way to start new year 2010!! being a stubborn head, i wont step down..unless he does it. how he did it? yes, AGAIN by pretending nothing happens. it's his way of solving problem...

during all this years of relationship, last night...i guess was the worst of all, i remembered i yelled/screamed once or twice.....this is the 3rd....really awful one! a pathetic Sunday is what today is...

Spore Trip 25-27th Dec 2009

opps....another outdated blog, what the heck, i write what i want here!

The night b4 ,24th, we had church production and by the time service finishes, it was past midnight. went home and packed, bathe and went to bed at almost 2am. we were suppose to wake up at 4am to catch a bus at KL Sentral! lo and behold....by the time i woke up by my phone new text msg coming in....i sat straight right up and woke AC, argh......................it was 7am!!!!!!!!!! our flight....7.20am!!! even helicopter also cant make it on time to LCCT!!!

AC cursed and i texted PF, telling her we missed flight as she was supposed to fetch us frm airport. poor her..she didnt sleep the whole night just bcoz she afraid she couldnt woke up at 8am! checked the next flight,12noon...cost us RM580!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *faint* Jetstart (price unavailable), Tigerway at 3pm cost RM380!!! we opted for bus ride at Pudu Station! phew...by 7.30am, we bought bus tickets at RM45 each!!! 8.15am, the journey began!!! hahaha....

Msia custom was renovated, much alike to Spore style. better, cleaner and bigger! We reached Spore custom by 2pm!! much earlier than i expected and earlier than by flight!

our beautiful host, ms PF & high school classmates, chan pang & samuel!!



The xmas diner gang at Ice Cream shoppe & us at a garden roof top of Orchard Central Mall




The gurls at Orchard Road...had a lovely diner treat by sis veron at Cafe Cartel..she practically force feed us till our stomach bloated! blessing in disguise....

we had a great trip down to Spore, meet some old friends, catch up with beautiful sisters....

Silent Treatment

yes, lately, we have been playing this......he has PMS (yes, is HE) and i managed to keep my mouth shut ( else, i would be lashing out harsh harsh words)!! i couldnt say it out..so i BLOGGED bout it...he would be reading it? yeah, so what..he's good at pretending NOT TO NOTICE it anyway!

it's hard to contain...i wanted to shout, slap, kick, chop, scream, yell, curse and....whatever within my power limit.....ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH...

ok....better! a day without him, yes, i will enjoy peace in my heart, have some new year festive filling in and forget the YOU!

if one day, i am not here anymore (R.I.P), the last word, when u drive fast (flashes/horn), think of what i always say..(plus I Love You) <--- not that u bother also..sigh..